1. I just don't understand how come you folks can be so careless about payments. Couldn't you get any of your family members touch base with the bank ?
2. Well first get your
credit report from CIBIL and see what's in it there ?
3. For payments to Citibank, you have two choices - Approach BCSBI [Read details on CardBhai.Com] or Negotiate Directly. But in my opinion they may not be willing to settle anything less than Rs 2 Lakh now.
4. Since Citibank was careless enough not to collect your PAN Card, make the best use of it now [However, other banks also share data with your name and address matching, so they might already have you in database, that's why get your credit report first].
5. Hoping the best for you, negotiate with the bank and in the address use some other TRUSTWORTHY address so that you receive all the postal mails there. Don't disclose your Legal Address which comes with Proof to Citibank in this context and make sure you will never deal with Citibank in Future.
5. For full and final Settlement, make payment with a crossed Cheque given by your Parents / Sister / Brother but not from your own account, so that you have Proof of Payment but de-linked from your new bank A/C, which may have PAN Number.
Hope you are getting my point here.
CardBhai.